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Football Prayer Group
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in 2012, as many of you know, things turned quite sour for our beloved
football players. There were so many things that just kept coming at
them- Jay's mom died, Coach Chizik's mom died, the fella who was one of
the managers died, they had already lost friends earlier that summer- it
just seemed the boys had a lot of things going on. I felt led to pray
for the players individually, but there was no way I could do it by
myself. There were several others who joined in with me including Klell,
Jonathan, Mike, Christian, and I think there might have been one or two
others. I was curious if anyone was interested in doing it for this
year. If you don't know anything about me, I am a high school special
education teacher. I work with tutoring for a lot of our athletes. I get
quite protective of my fellas (high school) and I can't think of a
better way than to have a prayer group for them. I have personally
witnessed how the loss of a teammate (for the high school where I teach)
shredded a team and kids to little bits. I know that not all of these
players knew Lutz well, but they are all going to need support with
prayers. I think that he had an influence on so many that his loss will
be felt throughout the team. I got a chance to meet Jay Prosch and a few
others this year at the Senior Bowl. I told him that there was a group
of us that prayed for them on an individual basis- and he got up and
hugged me.
Each week, we would assign a pray- er to jersey #s, such as 1-20 or 21-40, or coaches, etc. We rotated so that we got a chance to pray for different players. If something great happened, we tried to share about it. For instance, Sammie Coates had posted on his twitter that he was baptized, so we shared that with the prayer group. If we knew about anything specifically that was going on with a player, we tried to let that player's pray-we know. Let me tell you, its much harder to be upset with a player if you have been praying for him that week! It is a personal challenge, but I think its something that is worth it. If anyone has a better idea on how to rotate the players, I am open to doing it differently.
This isn't so much about praying for a win or a great game, although I am sure most of us have done that at some time. These guys go through a lot on a daily basis. They need prayers for safety, for schoolwork, or any other issues that might be going on with them. Many of us follow them on twitter and some of them share things on there. It's not like we have inside information on any player, but you don't have to have that to pray for them. We can rotate players again or keep the same ones. Last time we sort of did it through twitter or on another blog. If you are interested, let me know. You can send me a twitter message @tatershell or you can send an email to christyg1119@gmail.com
It can get a bit tedious but it is worth it. We only had a small group, so it was a lot to pray for 25 players each week. I hope we can so it so that every player is getting an individual prayer each week. If something especially difficult is going on with a player or coach, that can be shared and more of us can pray for that guy. If you are interested, let me know and we will figure it out how we are going to set it up.
Each week, we would assign a pray- er to jersey #s, such as 1-20 or 21-40, or coaches, etc. We rotated so that we got a chance to pray for different players. If something great happened, we tried to share about it. For instance, Sammie Coates had posted on his twitter that he was baptized, so we shared that with the prayer group. If we knew about anything specifically that was going on with a player, we tried to let that player's pray-we know. Let me tell you, its much harder to be upset with a player if you have been praying for him that week! It is a personal challenge, but I think its something that is worth it. If anyone has a better idea on how to rotate the players, I am open to doing it differently.
This isn't so much about praying for a win or a great game, although I am sure most of us have done that at some time. These guys go through a lot on a daily basis. They need prayers for safety, for schoolwork, or any other issues that might be going on with them. Many of us follow them on twitter and some of them share things on there. It's not like we have inside information on any player, but you don't have to have that to pray for them. We can rotate players again or keep the same ones. Last time we sort of did it through twitter or on another blog. If you are interested, let me know. You can send me a twitter message @tatershell or you can send an email to christyg1119@gmail.com
It can get a bit tedious but it is worth it. We only had a small group, so it was a lot to pray for 25 players each week. I hope we can so it so that every player is getting an individual prayer each week. If something especially difficult is going on with a player or coach, that can be shared and more of us can pray for that guy. If you are interested, let me know and we will figure it out how we are going to set it up.
Friday, July 11, 2014
IS YOUR ENVIRONMENT HOLDING YOU BACK?
BY JOHN C. MAXWELL
JULY 10, 2014
When I was much younger, I
found myself in a job situation where the environment wasn’t conducive to
growth. This frustrated and discouraged me. I had always been focused on growth
and improvement. From basketball as a kid to speaking professionally, I was
always looking for ways to get better at what I was doing. I might not have
always had an official plan for growth, but I was continually pursuing growth.
Now I found myself in a place where growth was not just ignored; the
environment discouraged it.
Maybe you’ve found yourself in
a similar situation. Back then, I could see clearly all around me what a growth
environment didn’t look like. But one day, I realized that I had never really
thought about what a growth environment did look like. What were the
characteristics of that environment? I was eager to figure it out, so I could
go in search of one. So I created a list of characteristics to look for in any
environment, so that I could be sure it was a place where I could grow. This is
what I wrote:
In a growth environment,
1. Others are ahead of you.
Is it possible to grow in
isolation? Sure, but not as fast as you can grow with others. And growth
happens even more when at least some of the people are ahead of you on the
journey. In a growth environment, the accomplishments of those ahead of you
encourage and challenge you to do more than you thought you could.
2. You are continually challenged.
It’s one thing to be
challenged by the growth of others. That will certainly help you grow. But it’s
even better when the job or task itself is challenging. When’s the last time a
boring job made you want to grow?
3. Your focus is forward.
“Yesterday ended last night.”
This is what leaders of growth environments believe. They’re more interested in
conquering the next challenge than worrying about the past.
4. The atmosphere is affirming.
My parents used to say, “You
catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.” In other words, in a
growth environment, the leader understands that being positive yields better
results than negativity. Being affirmed feels good, and it gives you the
courage to stretch and grow more.
5. You are often out of your comfort zone.
I’ve often said that you
should stay in your strength zone, but get out of your comfort zone. The skills
that you focus on growing should be areas where you have some natural ability,
as opposed to trying to shore up weaknesses. But that doesn’t mean you should
be comfortable. Getting out of your comfort zone happens when you’ve taken on a
challenge that’s bigger than you. And that bigger challenge yields bigger
rewards.
6. You wake up excited.
No, not every day. Everyone
has a bad day sometimes. But overall, in a growth environment, you feel so
positively challenged and affirmed that you are eager to get up every day
because you expect to keep growing and learning.
7. Failure is not your enemy.
By focusing on solutions
rather than blame, a growth environment gives you permission to make mistakes,
admit them, and learn from them. Failure is such a big part of growth, that
people don’t fear it.
8. Others are growing.
In addition to those who are
ahead of you, are the people around you growing? Moving together toward a
common goal can be exhilarating, like being on a winning team. In a growth
environment, people almost can’t help growing because it’s emphasized and
affirmed.
9. People desire change.
Growth equals change. If the
people around you don’t desire it, or worse, if they resist it, then your
environment is not one of growth. In a growth environment, change is encouraged
and celebrated.
10. Growth is modeled and expected.
In a growth environment, the
willingness to grow is demonstrated at all levels. Leaders expect it of
themselves as well as their people. They hold themselves and others accountable
when it’s not occurring. And they celebrate growth when it happens.
Writing my list had a great
effect on me. It gave me clarity on my then-current situation, as I became more
aware of how it was slowing down my personal growth. It also showed me what
kind of situation I needed to look for in the future. Soon afterward, I made a
difficult change, getting out of my comfort zone and stepping into a new
environment where I could thrive and grow again.
What kind of environment are
you in? Is it helping you grow or holding you back?
Are you a leader? If so, you
can make your organization into a growth environment. Use this list to check
your progress.
Are you a team member? If so,
you may not have much input into your environment. Use this list to see what
kind of environment you might want to be in. If you’re in a bad environment, it
may be time to move. If you are not able to move as easily as I did, here’s
some good news: you can grow in a non-growth environment. It’s just harder.
Are you a parent? It wasn’t
until after I wrote my list that I realized that I had basically described my
home environment growing up. My parents did a phenomenal job of nurturing and
encouraging our personal growth and learning. Use this list to create a growth
environment in your home. You’ll give your children a gift that they’ll use the
rest of their lives, as I have.
Personal growth is
challenging. It involves mistakes and failure. A good environment certainly
makes it easier to grow. But whether you’re in a good environment or not, you
can learn and improve where you are. I wrote my book, Sometimes You Win,
Sometimes You Learn, to help people like you to turn mistakes and losses into
opportunities. Even the most challenging situation can lead to incredible
growth. Continue to keep your eyes on that prize.
http://www.johnmaxwell.com/blog/is-your-environment-holding-you-back
http://www.johnmaxwell.com/blog/is-your-environment-holding-you-back
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Go Rest High
For all of those grieving for a lost one today. May they rest in peace, while being held in God's arms.
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