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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Thursday, May 23, 2013
A MEASURE OF THE HEART
One young man went to apply for a managerial position in
a big
company. He passed the initial interview, and now would
meet the
director for the final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth's
academic
achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain
any
scholarships in school?" the youth answered
"no".
"Was it your father who paid for your school
fees?"
"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my
mother who paid for my school fees." he
replied.
"Where did your mother work?"
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner."
The director requested the youth to show his hands. The
youth
showed a pair of hands that were smooth and
perfect.
"
Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more
books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than
me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go home
today, go
and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow
morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was
high. When
he
went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her
hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed
feelings, she
showed her hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear
fell as he did
that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's
hands were so
wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands.
Some
bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he
touched it.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was
this pair of
hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to
pay the
school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the
price that
the mother had to pay for his education, his school
activities and
his future.
After cleaning his mother hands, the youth quietly washed
all the
remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long
time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's
office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when
he asked:
"Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday
in
your house?"
The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hands, and
also
finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
"I
know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, I would not
be
who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I realize
how difficult and tough it is to get something done on
your own.
And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of
helping
one's family.
The director said, "This is what I am looking for in a
manager.
I
want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a
person who knows the sufferings of others to get things
done, and
a
person who would not put money as his only goal in life."
"You are hired."
This young person worked very hard, and received the
respect of
his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and
worked as
a
team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A
child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he
wanted, would develop an "entitlement mentality" and
would
always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his
parent's
efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every
person must
listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would
never
know the sufferings of his employees and would always
blame
others. For this kind of people, who may be good
academically,
they may be successful for a while, but eventually they
would not
feel a sense of achievement. They will grumble and be
full of
hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of
protective parents,
are we really showing love or are we destroying our
children
instead?
You can let your child live in a big house, eat a good
meal, learn
piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are cutting
grass,
please let them experience it. After a meal, let them
wash their
plates and bowls together with their brothers and
sisters. It is not
because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is
because
you want to love them in a right way. You want them to
under-
stand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day
their hair will
grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The
most
important thing is your child learns how to appreciate
the effort
and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to
work with
others to get things done.
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
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Thursday, May 9, 2013
Ten Ways to Treat Your Wife Like a Queen on Mother’s Day
By Arlene Pellicane
You’ve seen her pick up toys and dirty socks, make meals in a hurry, and drive around town like a personal chauffeur. She’s bandaged up boo-boos and dispensed sage advice along the way. Now with Mother’s Day in sight, you want to do something to honor your wife for all her hard work.
Flowers and dinner at her favorite restaurant are certainly welcome. But here are ten more ideas to treat your wife like a queen this Mother’s Day:
1. Offer a half day where you will do acts of service. Whether she asks you to plant flowers, clean your tool bench, go shopping with her or whatever, you'll do it gladly! She'll love having you complete some items on the "honey do" list.
2. Instead of avoiding a chick flick like the plague, go ahead and rent one you think your wife would enjoy. Send your wife an invitation to a movie night. Light candles, make popcorn, and snuggle up under a blanket while you watch.
3. If your wife works outside the home, send a love note to her office on Friday before Mother's Day. Tell her how much you appreciate her hard work in caring for you and the children. Praise her for specific ways she mothers your children with patience, wisdom, a sense of humor, etc.
4. See all that laundry piled up in the basket? Surprise your spouse by doing the laundry and putting it away. Remember to separate the darks and maybe even set the washer's setting to gentle to avoid ruining her favorite shirt.
5. Wash her car and vacuum the inside. Whether you have this done at a car wash or do it yourself, she'll appreciate driving a clean vehicle.
6. Have an unhurried time of prayer for your wife. Ask her to share her needs with you. Hold hands as you pray for her. Look up Scriptures together to encourage you both. Make time during the week to continue to pray for your wife. Share anything the Lord may say to you during those prayer times.
7. Take care of the kids for an afternoon and tell your wife she’s got free time! She can get caught up on scrapbooking, read a book, go to the store alone, watch a movie, have coffee with her girlfriend, whatever would re-charge her battery!
8. Turn your bedroom into a day spa. Draw a hot bath for your wife, complete with mountain high bubbles, candles and relaxing music. Then give her a Mother's Day massage. While you're rubbing her shoulders and back, tell her how much you appreciate all the things she does for your family.
9. If your children are grown and out of the house, plan something special with them. Maybe this is the Mother's Day for all the children to travel home to surprise mom. Or everyone can plan to call at a certain time, or send letters of appreciation that you can put in a folder for your wife.
10. Hire a housekeeper to clean the house so the house will be sparkling for Mother's Day without your wife lifting a finger.
As you can see, some of these ideas cost money but many of them are free. The key is to find something that would communicate love and appreciation to your wife. Proverbs 11:25 says that “a generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” Mother’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to refresh your wife, reduce her stress level, and strengthen her spirit with encouragement.
When you make a special effort to honor your wife and give her a few surprises for Mother’s Day, she is sure to feel like a queen!
Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of 31 Days to a Happy Husband and 31 Days to a Younger You. She has been a guest on Family Life Today, The 700 Club, Turning Point with David Jeremiah, and The Hour of Power. Arlene and her husband James live in San Diego with their three children. Visit Arlene’s website at www.TheHappyHusband.com.
Publication date: May 8, 2013
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
How to Fight the Good Fight
By Joyce Meyer: Promises for Your Everyday Life
We are to "fight the good fight of faith" against the enemy - but what does that look like practically? Here are six key strategies:
1. Think aggressively. Plan and calculate, like a general preparing for battle, how to engage and defeat the enemy.
2. Pray fervently. Hebrews 4:16 instructs us to approach God's throne confidently. Step forward with confidence and tell Him what you need.
3. Speak fearlessly. First Peter 4:11 (AMP) says, "Whoever speaks, [let him do it as one who utters] oracles of God." You and I are to have a spiritually commanding voice against the forces of evil.
4. Give abundantly. The way we give is the way we receive (see Luke 6:38). Live a life of generosity.
5. Work intently. Whatever we put our hand to, we need to do it aggressively (see Eccl. 9:10). Stir yourself up in the Holy Spirit and get the job done.
6. Love unconditionally. As children of God, we must love others as God loves us, unconditionally and sacrificially.
Take these steps, and when the enemy comes, you'll be filled with God's power and unbeatable.
Pray this Prayer: Lord, I don't want to sit back and miss the fight You've called me to. As I move forward, show me how to apply these six strategies in my fight against the enemy.
We are to "fight the good fight of faith" against the enemy - but what does that look like practically? Here are six key strategies:
1. Think aggressively. Plan and calculate, like a general preparing for battle, how to engage and defeat the enemy.
2. Pray fervently. Hebrews 4:16 instructs us to approach God's throne confidently. Step forward with confidence and tell Him what you need.
3. Speak fearlessly. First Peter 4:11 (AMP) says, "Whoever speaks, [let him do it as one who utters] oracles of God." You and I are to have a spiritually commanding voice against the forces of evil.
4. Give abundantly. The way we give is the way we receive (see Luke 6:38). Live a life of generosity.
5. Work intently. Whatever we put our hand to, we need to do it aggressively (see Eccl. 9:10). Stir yourself up in the Holy Spirit and get the job done.
6. Love unconditionally. As children of God, we must love others as God loves us, unconditionally and sacrificially.
Take these steps, and when the enemy comes, you'll be filled with God's power and unbeatable.
Pray this Prayer: Lord, I don't want to sit back and miss the fight You've called me to. As I move forward, show me how to apply these six strategies in my fight against the enemy.
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